We can inoculate our students with preventative steps from great reads to online resources. The key is to start early in the school year and choose the appropriate resource for the grade level. Books such as Jacqueline Woodson's EACH KINDNESS to R. J. Palacio's WONDER will help inform our discussion on how to heal our students and choose kindness. October is Anti-Bullying Month. Today is October 1, so let the book talks begin!
Just like Momma's homemade chicken soup, books are good for what ails us. In "library land," we librarians call this therapy bibliotherapy. These mentor texts that help guard against bullying are fun, not didactic, and have a great story arc. Here's a sampling of titles I discussed at a teacher/library/author inservice at the Paradise Valley school district.
Every Cowgirl Goes to School: Rebecca Janni, illus. Lynne Avril
Ole Nelly Sue's day goes from bad to worse at the beginning of the school year. Seems her BFF has a new friend and they're whispering about Nelly, or so she thinks. Poor Nelly is humiliated when new girl Maya draws her as an actual COW girl and all the kids "moo." Reality vs. perceived actions is the theme in this PB. Teachers/caregivers can have a great discussion via what your actions say and what you REALLY mean.
I'm throwing in a few links that you can use for teachers' guides if you're writing an ms with a bullying theme. OR, you can share these like with teachers, librarian friends, parents or caregivers. All curated by me, your friendly former K-12 librarian.
1. From the HuffPo: A school counselor, licensed social worker and therapist defines and differentiates between being rude, being mean and being a bully. Examples of each behavior are given, also.
1. From the HuffPo: A school counselor, licensed social worker and therapist defines and differentiates between being rude, being mean and being a bully. Examples of each behavior are given, also.
2. A Mighty Girl: Follow on Facebook or the blog. A Mighty Girl has a plethora of resources to keep our girls strong and emotionally stable before bullying starts. In this particular post a 14-year-old girl stands on a
graffiti-covered rock with comments that demean her. The picture's gone viral, reaching over 4 million people. Discusses
the pervasive problem of cyber-bullying. (for tweens and teens.)
3. Pacer's National Bullying Prevention Center: This site breaks out resources by grade level and includes a bullying pledge.The End of Bullying Begins with Me is the message during PACER’s
National Bullying Prevention Month, October.
Now, back to a few more books...
The Recess Queen by Alexis O’Neill, illus. by Laura Huliska-Beith
Kindness and friendship have power in
this picture book when new girl, Katie Sue, puts Mean Jean in her place in the
school yard. If Jean is crossed she’ll “push’em and smoosh’em, lollopo’loosh
‘em. Hammer’em, slammer ’em ” What fun language to get across a message! The book includes diverse characters and shows
girls are just as capable of being bullies.
Each Kindness by Jacqueline Woodson, illus. by E. B. Lewis
Gorgeous collaboration between Woodson & Lewis who have worked together before. The PB won the Jane Adams Peace Association Award and is a perfect book for the first quarter of the year to set a classroom tone of respect and thoughtfulness. Share this book from grades K-5. The power here is the sparse language paired with a message about how even children exclude children who are poor from their friendships. Yes, Chloe is black and Maya, the ostracized student, is white; but this has no bearing on the story. Educators and caregivers can recreate Ms. Albert's exercise in throwing peebles into a bowl of water for acts of kindness with their students.
So share those books & resources and let's inoculate against the bullying bug NOW. Kindly share your go-to bullying resources in the comments section, please.
