Why You Might Want to Opt Out
by Leslie Colin Tribble
Last week I posted (Nov. 6) a list of some of the amazing
classes and challenges available to writers of children's books. If you desire
to improve technical aspects of your craft, seek inspiration or want to engage
with others in this positive, encouraging and amazingly helpful community, then
that list will help you find what you need.
But instead of signing up for every class, or joining every
Facebook group, maybe you should opt out.
Not necessarily. I discovered I wasn't disciplined enough to
do the work for whatever group I was currently involved with and work on my
stories. Or I start out great - developing a story idea, make a few revisions,
then I'd totally fizzle out so that now I have several very rough manuscripts
hiding in folders on my computer.
I've talked to other writers and they sympathize. Many say
something to the effect that all these great writing events are keeping them
from doing their real writing - it's keeping them from sitting in the chair and
actually writing.
Joanna Penn, bestselling author says, "The biggest writing challenge continues to be actually sitting down to write."
It's nice to know I'm not alone, but now that I understand how hard it is I have to be even more diligent to keep myself in the chair.
Let's face it, we writers are wonderful procrastinators. How
many times have you sat down at your computer and had the same experience as
Megan McCartle who penned this:
"In the course of writing this one article, I have
checked my e-mail approximately 3,000 times, made and discarded multiple
grocery lists, conducted a lengthy Twitter battle over whether the gold
standard is actually the worst economic policy ever proposed, written Facebook
messages to schoolmates I haven’t seen in at least a decade, invented a
delicious new recipe for chocolate berry protein smoothies, and googled my own
name several times to make sure that I have at least once written something
that someone would actually want to read."
I laughed at this because I don't know about you, but that's so me. So in an effort to
cut down on those distractions that keep me from actually writing, you won't
see me registering for online classes or challenges. I really want to publish a book and no longer are the sands of time on my side. I guess publishing posthumously is better than nothing, but I'm pretty sure I'd rather read it to a group of kids than have someone else read it.
I'm also pulling back from social media. I read several
articles on the subject and found myself really agreeing with Steve Pavlina:
"As I did this, I began considering that maybe I should
drop Twitter and Google+ as well. I thought about it carefully and decided that
I really didn’t want to spend any more years of my life sharing things on
social media. I basically asked myself which scenario seemed best over the next
10 years — going social media-free vs. continuing to use it. It wasn’t really a
difficult choice to see which alternative was best. The thought of investing
another decade in those services made me cringe."
I know lots of people who are social media mavens. They're
incredibly adept at using the platform and really, that's impressive. But that's
not me. I agonize over what to post so that it will be engaging. I even ask my
20-something year old daughter how she would caption something because I know
my words are stilted and *sigh*, old-sounding. Now I'm checking in about once
or twice a week and it's very freeing. I'm not pressured to 'like' everything
my friends post, and I only post if it's something that really is important to
me (usually photographs).
Considering I'm already very easily distracted from writing
I completely agreed with Steve Pavlina when he wrote this:
"I also dislike how social media conditions my brain to
be very distraction prone. Too often I’d find myself engaged in some activity
and impulsively checking accounts — much more often than I needed to. Have you
ever experienced that?
How many times have you checked on some account or other in
the past 24 hours? If every social media check was equivalent to a shot of
alcohol, would you be considered an alcoholic?"
Ouch!
When I'm honest with myself, I realized I used to
check Facebook (I'm too long-winded for Twitter) simply as something to do. I'd
even see what was for sale on my local FB Classifieds group, even though I certainly didn't need a broken lamp shade (I have my own, thank you!). Think of how much writing I could have gotten
done with those 5, 10 or more mindless minutes given to social media.
My business card and email signature says, "Writer," not "Social Media Checker."
Note: All images taken from Bryon Collins' article, "25 Valuable Lessons From Seriously Successful Writers"
